littlem
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  May 15 '08 by littlem        36 Comments        Watch this
I don't know why I'm writing this here. I know this subject is awkward. sigh

I'm going to a memorial service later today.

A week ago, I found out that one of my son's classmate's dad was gravely ill with Cystic Fibrosis. He passed away last Saturday, awaiting a lung transplant. If you are familiar with the disease, you'd know that at 43 years of age, he lived a long life.

I had no idea, all these years at school, that he suffered from this disease. He never complained. Not once. He was very involved in school activities. He was just a great person.

Sometimes I'd see him on the way to school and we'd chat at the red lights.

I will miss his gigantic, gas-guzzling truck and his gentle spirit.

Please send good thoughts to his wife, daughter, and family.

Thanks

Sappy Music Video xoxo

Lhiiiz
Lhiiiz on May 15 '08 at 10:21am
Oh man, that's rough. Good thoughts and prayers headed to all you guys. :(
tracerbullet
   tracerbullet on May 15 '08 at 10:21am
:-( sorry to hear that
Jebbie
Jebbie on May 15 '08 at 10:22am
:( Best thoughts being sent..
bcrider
bcrider on May 15 '08 at 10:30am
Wow, that's terrible. Prayers and good karma being sent to everyone he knew.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 10:33am
thanks! the whole 5th grade class will be sitting together. my son really wanted to be there. i think it's wonderful
DaddyDom
DaddyDom on May 15 '08 at 10:52am
hey, thanks for bringing us all down! bitch
DaddyDom
DaddyDom on May 15 '08 at 10:53am
who was it?
mezo
   mezo on May 15 '08 at 10:55am
Wow- 43 years IS long for a CF fighter to live, but still too young to die. Terribly sorry for your heartache, annie.

I had a BFF from the 6-8th grade who had CF. She died at 18.
marblecargirl
marblecargirl on May 15 '08 at 10:56am
That's so sad :( But quite amazing that he had such a long life with that disease! Definitely sending happy comforting thoughts to his family and friends.
squatterjohn
squatterjohn on May 15 '08 at 10:56am
My friend's dad died in the 5th grade. It really sucks :(

It's nice the whole class are there for the child. None of us really knew what to do at the time. Stuff went on as usual a bit, he put on a pretty brave face at school.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 12:20pm
sorry for all your loved ones lost through the years. it's never an easy thing.
of all my children, my 6 year old has the toughest times dealing with death. she has a heart of gold.
i was just at school and spoke briefly with her teacher who said my daughter was crying this morning and wanted to make a card for the girl who lost her dad.
i love her to pieces!
mype4nut
mype4nut on May 15 '08 at 12:29pm
Sometimes I'd see him on the way to school and we'd chat at the red lights.

That's such a nice little picture. I'm glad you have good memories of him.
squintygirl
squintygirl on May 15 '08 at 12:32pm
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. I'm also sorry that your daughter is feeling it so keenly. She must have such a big heart.
Tess Fondie
Tess Fondie on May 15 '08 at 12:33pm
=( aw thats really too bad. its weird how the coolest people you meet always seem to have some sort of misfortune.
ladykat
ladykat on May 15 '08 at 12:50pm
Oh, I'm so sorry! I'm sending best wishes to you and his family.
ladykat
ladykat on May 15 '08 at 12:51pm
*hugs*
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 1:30pm
thanks, everyone!
kirstenlovesdinner
kirstenlovesdinner on May 15 '08 at 1:31pm
Oh no. =( Sorry littlem. Best wishes to his family.
squeegebeckenheim
squeegebeckenheim on May 15 '08 at 1:42pm
Oh no, that's so terrible!

Hugs and good thoughts to everyone involved.
alvarejo
   alvarejo on May 15 '08 at 1:47pm
sorry to hear that. the thing is that he sounds like those kind of people that you will put a smile on your face whenever you remember him
dorkman
dorkman on May 15 '08 at 2:28pm
Hey now, I always thought ball-sucking was a good activity until I read this post. Dang.

Seriously, though, I feel for you littlem. I'll be sending my positive thoughts.

/kids are the best, and yours sounds great

sincerely,
Blogochio
lordog
lordog on May 15 '08 at 2:32pm
Aw, I'm sorry. That really is an amazing age to reach with CF, but regardless, it's still so young. Your daughter sounds like a big sweetheart.

Sending good thoughts...
courtney pie
courtney pie on May 15 '08 at 2:36pm
*sends warm thoughts to all*
hogboy
   hogboy on May 15 '08 at 2:44pm
Damn, sorry to hear that Annie. Positive vibes from me are heading their way.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 3:08pm
thanks a bunch, everyone. i know they'd appreciate all the positive thoughts!
ginetteginette
ginetteginette on May 15 '08 at 3:33pm
cf is a pretty strange hereditary disease, and mostly misunderstood. it's an easy thing to hide unless you've developed a lot of symptoms from birth. and i have no idea why i'm admitting it but it's sort of been my small double-life for a few years now.
i got really sick in the later part of highschool and after having gone through a bunch of tests to figure out what was going on (tb tests, allergy tests etc) i found out i had cf and even the doctor who told me this didn't know much about my exact situation (as most people are diagnosed when they're babies). i remember searching up on wikipedia and i thought i was going to die by twenty. (which isn't going to happen, and apart from my bi-yearly visit to a respiratory-specialist i live pretty normally)
so whenever i hear of someone dying from this it saddens me more than it normally would, and it just makes me really glad that no one else in my family has any symptoms from the genes that they carry.

but on a lighter note i remember reading somewhere that cf research is one of the fastest advancing research of it's type.
***sending good thoughts.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 3:40pm
aww ginetteginette.. i'm lost for words. you get all the positive thoughts from this blog as well!
xoxoxoxox
squatterjohn
squatterjohn on May 15 '08 at 3:44pm
I want to blast rainbow beams of happiness at both of you, one out of each eye.
lordog
lordog on May 15 '08 at 3:46pm
wow ginette, i'm sorry you suffer from cf, too. i have a friend whose little boy died of cf when he was only 5, so it amazes me when i hear of people living normal or close-to-normal lives with this disease. i hope that cf research continues to move very quickly, so you can get some relief.
ginetteginette
ginetteginette on May 15 '08 at 3:49pm
those few months of fear of not really knowing what cf meant in my case was much worse than what i have now. i cough more than most people do but that's really the most of it.
there are like a thousand shades to cf, it really is an odd disease.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 10:57pm
yes, ginette, i can only try to imagine what that period of limbo must have felt like. i wish you the best. please feel free to keep us updated on yourself.
bobobob1230
bobobob1230 on May 15 '08 at 11:09pm
tess fondie: =( aw thats really too bad. its weird how the coolest people you meet always seem to have some sort of misfortune.
its a bitch aint it? part of the cruelty/beauty of life. it just gives more credit to these people.

ginette... god thoughts to you constantly :(




bobobob1230
bobobob1230 on May 15 '08 at 11:10pm
^that song i posted always cheers me up
Steve The Great
Steve The Great on May 15 '08 at 11:13pm
aw geeze this blog just sucked out all my happy thoughts for the day....I hope it spits them back at those who require them.
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 11:19pm
sorry, steve, i won't post any more happy-thought-sucking blogs anymore!
littlem
littlem on May 15 '08 at 11:19pm
thanks for the song, bobobobobobob :p
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